Gen. Wesley Clark claimed he’s the victim of “general indignities” by his wife Gertrude in divorce papers that blame her for their marriage’s breakdown after 46 years — and not his fling with much-younger Shauna Mei. The former NATO Supreme Commander, 68, has filed for divorce in Arkansas against Gertrude, citing “general indignities” as the reason. Page Six exclusively revealed he is dating Mei, 30, and is spending time at her Noho pad.