The Hollywood crowd at the Carlyle these days has the uptown institution bending the rules. Jonah Hill arrived in jeans and a T-shirt last week to see John Pizzarelli and Jessica Molaskey’s show, defying Café Carlyle’s strict jackets-for-men policy. But a rep for the venue told us, “While we never comment on the identities of our guests, we have been somewhat more lenient than usual about [our] dress code in light of the post-storm aftermath. We are just happy our patrons are safe . . . and we can offer a refuge.”