No need to stop partying just because millions of Haitians are suffering. In fact, you can help the earthquake relief effort by going out tonight. At the Thompson hotel on the Lower East Side, DJs Mark Ronson, Juskee and Messkid will spin for a crowd hosted by Stacey Bendet, Fabiola Beracasa, Steve Garbarino, Zani Gugelmann, Annelise Peterson, Whitney Port, Charlotte Ronson and Ali Wise. It’s $20 at the door and features a cash bar, with proceeds going to benefit Haiti. In Beverly Hills, at the mansion of supermarket mogul Ron Burkle, Mark Wahlberg and Ben Silverman are hosting a $1,000-a-head benefit for Unik Ernest‘s Edeyo Foundation with such guests as Leo DiCaprio, Kate Bosworth and Jamie Foxx. Tomorrow, back east at 1Oak, a $40 donation at the door gets you in with such co-hosts as Gabriel Byrne, Alan Cumming, Emma Snowdon-Jones, Phillip Bloch, Amy Sacco and Thom Filicia.