Southampton socialites can be uptight, but they were introduced to some New Age relaxation techniques at Donna Karan‘s Urban Zen lunch at her daughter Gabby‘s new restaurant Thursday. Nacho Figueras‘ wife, Delfina Blaquier, and Cristina Cuomo joined 60 socialites at Tutto il Giorno to view models wearing couture yoga dresses and Haitian and African jewelry. “How many of you have done yoga?” Donna asked. Only half of the crowd raised their bejeweled hands. She then led them, along with gurus Rodney and Colleen Saidman Yee, in meditation and chanting. A spy said the women “sat in the garden with their eyes shut as they were told to think calming thoughts from their toes to their coiffed heads.” They then dove into awaiting mozzarella and tomato salads. It may have been the most mellow meal the ladies who lunch have had.