OUR hearts go out to Stanley Tucci. Friends of the actor say Tucci’s wife, Kate, passed away from cancer last week. Tucci — who can be seen in the upcoming “Julie & Julia” with Meryl Streep — held a wake for his wife of 14 years over the weekend. Kate is survived by Tucci and her three children. Tucci told us, “My wife was an extraordinary person who showed us all what great strength is.”