Joy Behar wants Carl Paladino to know her hair is real. “This isn’t a wig,” Behar told us at the Hamptons magazine party for her first anniversary as a Headline News host at the Paramount Hotel. “The only thing illegitimate about my hair is the color.” Behar had said on “The View” that the only way Paladino could win the race for governor was if “all of his illegitimate children vote.” He fired back, saying her hairstylist is illegitimate and she was suffering from a hot flash. “Even Bill Maher couldn’t believe he pulled the hot-flash card,” Behar said.