“Today” co-host Hoda Kotb is so in love, “We’re in danger of losing our show,” Kathie Lee Gifford cried at the Friars Club yesterday to a crowd including Liza Minnelli. Kotb, who’s discussed her romance with a Manhattan lawyer on the show, shrank in her seat when a guest at the “Afternoon of Wit, Wisdom and Wine” asked if she’d consider remarrying. “I don’t know,” she said. Gifford jumped in, “It’s so great! A man with a job!” When they dished about the “Today” happy-hour themed final segment, where they sip wine, a sober Minnelli jumped out of her seat to say, “I didn’t have a drink!”