Despite publicly decreeing she’s no role model, Rihanna‘s got some upstanding morals when it comes to sex.

The 27-year-old Bajan pop princess revealed in the November issue of Vanity Fair that casual hooking up doesn’t cut it for her.

“If I wanted to I would completely do that,” Rihanna confessed. “I am going to do what makes me feel happy, what I feel like doing. But that would be empty for me; that to me is a hollow move. I would wake up the next day feeling like s–t.”

When it comes to dating, Rihanna’s very aware that she’s often linked to men simply because she’s photographed with them — for example, Drake, Leonardo DiCaprio, Travis Scott, Lewis Hamilton and, as of Tuesday, German soccer stud Kevin Trapp.

Her last relationship was with Chris Brown back in 2012, three years after he assaulted her after a Grammy party in Los Angeles. She says reuniting with Brown led to a realization that in some ways, she wasn’t meant for him.

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Rihanna shared that she’ll care about Brown “until the day I die,” but the former couple are no longer friends. “It’s not like we’re enemies. We don’t have much of a relationship now,” she said.

But when she’s ready to actually date, chivalry is among the most important qualities for a man to have.

“They think being a real man is actually being a p—sy, that if you take a chair out for a lady, or you’re nice or even affectionate to your girl in front of your boys, you’re less of a man,” she said. “It’s so sick. They won’t be a gentleman because that makes them appear soft.”

But she won’t settle.

“I will wait forever if I have to … but that’s OK you have to be screwed over enough times to know, but now I’m hoping for more than these guys can actually give.”