GOV. Paterson tweaked the Rev. Al Sharpton with a not- so-subtle toast Tuesday night about their rank in the hierarchy of the state’s black leadership. The governor raised a glass to all the fa miliar faces in the crowd at the Pent house at the Soho Grand Hotel and said, “It’s kind of like a family, and he’s like the prince. I’ve moved up to king.” Sharpton promptly grabbed the microphone and said, “The only way I can be king is to kill the king.”